I wouldn't be reading into it any further.
Infact if i were you i'd forget that you've even done any "snooping".
/edit - Or maybe you shouldn't.
Not every case is the same, but a GF of mine last year was all "i love you, ive really fallen for you" etc, then just before we went on holiday, an "old friend" popped up, who would text and ring etc all the time.
I didn't like it, but she wasn't hiding it from me, then we went on Holiday and he was still ringing and texting her all the time, kinda let on that it was annoying me and she assured me there was nothing to worry about. On the last night before we went, she got steaming drunk, and passed out. he was trying to ring her so i answered, said "Hello?" and he put the phone down. I woke up the next morning, told her about it and she just laughed it off (literally). That was when i did what probably was the thing i didnt want to do, went into her messages. There was one message from her best friend saying "I think you should tell him ASAP", then another from the "old friend" saying "I've just told my boss what we have been texting each other, she cant believe it xx".
When we got back off holiday we had tickets for the Moto GP booke,d but i made it aware to her that i was unconfortable as things were, and she came out with the old "oh this is too much, i can't cope, maybe we should spend a bit of time apart".
We got back from the GP and she told me she needed a rest, so i left her to it, went out in the car and she drove past on her way out somewhere, so i called her up, we had a huge argument and ended up parting ways. A week later my brother was at a local Motocross event, and she was there hand in hand with the "old friend".
Needless to say, i'm much better off with the person i'm with now, and she did me a favour really, it was quite an eye opener.
If you have serious doubts or suspicions, ask her about it.
Infact if i were you i'd forget that you've even done any "snooping".
/edit - Or maybe you shouldn't.
Not every case is the same, but a GF of mine last year was all "i love you, ive really fallen for you" etc, then just before we went on holiday, an "old friend" popped up, who would text and ring etc all the time.
I didn't like it, but she wasn't hiding it from me, then we went on Holiday and he was still ringing and texting her all the time, kinda let on that it was annoying me and she assured me there was nothing to worry about. On the last night before we went, she got steaming drunk, and passed out. he was trying to ring her so i answered, said "Hello?" and he put the phone down. I woke up the next morning, told her about it and she just laughed it off (literally). That was when i did what probably was the thing i didnt want to do, went into her messages. There was one message from her best friend saying "I think you should tell him ASAP", then another from the "old friend" saying "I've just told my boss what we have been texting each other, she cant believe it xx".
When we got back off holiday we had tickets for the Moto GP booke,d but i made it aware to her that i was unconfortable as things were, and she came out with the old "oh this is too much, i can't cope, maybe we should spend a bit of time apart".
We got back from the GP and she told me she needed a rest, so i left her to it, went out in the car and she drove past on her way out somewhere, so i called her up, we had a huge argument and ended up parting ways. A week later my brother was at a local Motocross event, and she was there hand in hand with the "old friend".
Needless to say, i'm much better off with the person i'm with now, and she did me a favour really, it was quite an eye opener.
If you have serious doubts or suspicions, ask her about it.
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