To edgey,I take it mate he's younger than you, my brother i mentioned in the post above is pretty much the same, he has a kid here in northern ireland, who is the best nephew you could get, my brother lives in southern ireland with a new girlfriend and two more wee boys down there, theyre all great kids, but with him being away he tends to neglect the wee fella who lives up here, thats another thing that i have issues with him about, its something im not keen on as the wee guy up here is such a great kid.