Nope thats fine. Just a little easier to diagnose if we know what we are working with. As for opening ports.
Log into the web interface for the netgear.
Under content filtering select Services
Starting with the first port you need to open. Give it a name and enter the port number for both start and finish boxes. (if you are defining a range of consecutive ports you can have different start and finish ports). Click apply to save.
Once you have been throught his process for each of the ports you want to open, click firewall rules under content filtering.
Under inbound services click 'Add'.
From the service drop down, choose the first of the ports you defined under services.
Where it says 'Send to lan user', enter the IP address of the machine you wish to use to establish the VPN tunnel.
Click apply to save.
Repeat this process for the remaining ports you defined under services.
As for the ports -
PPTP
To allow PPTP tunnel maintenance traffic, open TCP 1723.
To allow PPTP tunneled data to pass through router, open Protocol ID 47.
L2TP over IPSec
To allow Internet Key Exchange (IKE), open UDP 500.
To allow IPSec Network Address Translation (NAT-T) open UDP 5500.
To allow L2TP traffic, open UDP 1701
Sorry this is a bit rough around the edges, but you should get the general idea.
Let us know how you get on.
MJD