Actually the Maximus 3 extreme will let you have up to 3 at 16x. I think the EVGA *** 200 lets you have 16x for the primary and 8x for the secondaries.
Like Temi D said, you're not going to notice the performance difference if you drop down to 8x. Bear in mind that some brands disable the 2nd slot if you enable SATA 3/USB 3, as they use the 2nd 8x lane.