A few pointers from my experience some years ago:
1) First, make sure that it is REALLY over between you, this is achieved by talking, I know that this sounds fundamental, but there are couples who don't even do this!
2) If it is, use a solicitor.
3) Make sure ALL agreements made between you and the other party are in writing, signed and witnessed (and if you use a solicitor this will be done).
4) Don't let it turn you into a bitter person.
1) First, make sure that it is REALLY over between you, this is achieved by talking, I know that this sounds fundamental, but there are couples who don't even do this!
2) If it is, use a solicitor.
3) Make sure ALL agreements made between you and the other party are in writing, signed and witnessed (and if you use a solicitor this will be done).
4) Don't let it turn you into a bitter person.