The direction of OcUK

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It's always been like this =\

Monitors have always displayed women. Porn forum has been a running joke for ages, and the forum is predominately middle aged men with a sense of humour. I'm aware we have ladies here too though...preferably browsing from a laptop, in the kitchen.

I do not see the problem atall. It's actually a little cringeworthy thinking you had a problem with the Adult section april fools. As I thought it was funny
 
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Some women become prostitutes and wear skimpy outfits, then you get moronic men who then equate a style of dress with a willingness to have sex with them. Ergo the portrayal of one group of women affects all women to some degree. Not unlike if some men rape then we are all suspect, if one black person is a mugger then all black men are suspect.

This isn't about me being offended for anybody, this is about automatically treating one group as you would like to be treated yourself, applying a set of principles regardless of foul.

Yes, women get used to sell products, I don't see the need for them to undress to do so. Don't you think that they should be allowed some level of dignity?
Yes men vastly outnumber women in here but I wouldn't wish for this forum to be male only, for one thing the behaviour of men would plummet.
What you are saying really is it suits you to see naked women everywhere so it's OK to ignore what women may think.


Like I said the difference between the genders is that the male body rarely gets used to sell anything, but women's bodies are hawked around to flog anything from engine oil to vodka.
That level of perfection is then assimilated by women so they feel bad about their less than perfect bodies.

There was a program on telly a while back where teenage girls were altering their bodies to look more like porn stars because that was what the boys in their group were expecting. So don't tell me the over exposure of women in this way doesn't have a provable negative effect on other groups of women, I don't even need to mention eating disorders.

I honestly don't know what to say to that.

Modelling and prostitution do not go hand in hand.

Rapes will happen no matter what people wear
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If a black man rapes a woman then you are right the suspects will all be black.

Unhealthily skinny models (not the physically fit ones being discussed here) contribute to eating disorders.

Not everyone can be as lucky as Tony in my sig.

Have you not looked through a woman's magazine, it is full of topless men who live in the gym and use liberal amounts of fake tan, no different to a men's mag for example.
 
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I think you are getting fixated on key words rather than look at the point, which was what one group of women may do actually influences the perception of the whole (gender)

Models are in general thinner than average, trying to reach that weight level can cause girls to fixate on food (not entirely, control issues are also connected)

I don't really want to debate a whole lot of sub issues, I think my posts so far are pretty straightforward.
 
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I think its a shame the OP is not around to comment. "fire and forget" perhaps?

Prostitution has nothing to do with the use of models tbh. It is out of context for this thread.

For the record, I thought the Fools were great :) I was only commenting on the possible direction of advertising.
 
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Prostitution has nothing to do with the use of models tbh. It is out of context for this thread.
see #364
I don't want to keep explaining the same stuff all the time, none of this is complicated.

Sex sells, It's a common sales technique thats been used for years, Hardware, Cars, deodorant and aftershave, Grooming Products. Generally anything aimed at men. ......Is that over your head?
That make you the 'John' then, see the inference here?
 
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Yep, I agree.

But standards only go one way and that's down, and the only group that is losing it's dignity is women - that's why so few blokes are standing up here, it doesn't affect us. That doesn't mean we should ignore it though.
OK by not standing by a set of principles we lose a bit of integrity but when was the last time anybody valued anyone else's integrity? I would have bet money that Castiel would have said that all this was unnecessary.

If the only way women can compete is by showing more then they will do it, they self-moderate a little by setting a level of sluttiness, but they will pretty much follow the group.
But ultimately the people driving this are men, Nuts and Cosmopolitan may both talk about sex but it's Nuts that uses nakedness to sell copy.

Basically we are offering women money to undress, in the same way you go to a strip club or a brothel or an OcUK stand. Here's my money for that £300 GPU and thanks for the *** show.

That's OK in the context of a relationship, but as a cold financial transaction it ultimately degrades both genders. OcUK is the pimp and we are the punters.

Hmm, in fairness, nuts sells nakedness (I honestly don't know what this magazine is about :o), but Cosmopolitan sells sex toys and very pro female agenda's at the expense of men. (I know because one of my flat mates used to read them)

I don't think a lot of women help themselves, or for that matter want to. For example most of my friends who are girls I do not see "eye to eye" on quite a lot of issues. They are very sexually liberal and hold values that I do not ascribe to. Obviously it's completely their choice, but I personally do not agree with them. You can't sleep with 20 guys and then complain that blokes don't "show you respect".
 
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If i need a new graphics card, a pair of **** really isn't going to influence my decision in all honesty.

'Oh, I'll buy this inferior product because the girl in the ad has baps of fury'

Hmmm
 
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That make you the 'John' then, see the inference here?

I'm not saying it sells the product to someone looking, What it can do is sell the product to someone who isnt.

for example. A man spots a poster due to boobies(which you know, generally does happen) See's an offer on something he needs yet wasn't considering purchasing from that particular retailer.


Boobies + The offer = Sale
 
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Hmm, in fairness, nuts sells nakedness (I honestly don't know what this magazine is about :o), but Cosmopolitan sells sex toys and very pro female agenda's at the expense of men. (I know because one of my flat mates used to read them)
Yep it's probably wrong to stereotype a group dependant on what a magazine house chooses to push at them, although I do remember when Cosmopolitan was a general interest magazine rather than a cross between a sex guide and a metro male psychology study.

I don't think a lot of women help themselves, or for that matter want to. For example most of my friends who are girls I do not see "eye to eye" on quite a lot of issues. They are very sexually liberal and hold values that I do not ascribe to. Obviously it's completely their choice, but I personally do not agree with them. You can't sleep with 20 guys and then complain that blokes don't "show you respect".
Yep, there is a danger of putting people onto pedestals here.
Ironic that if teenage boys are requesting porn star attributes it's hardly fair to moan when they get the porn star mindset too :o Being a virgin twice only works for Madonna.

A German tabloid, Bild, recently dropped it's topless girls from the front page, presumably to recover a female readership, so for OcUK to do the opposite is a bit anachronistic, it's not like women don't play games or anything.

Anyway I don't want to make a crusade here, it's a minor point of principle which most people would make if they thought a group was being singled out. People make way more fuss over racism and I can't bring myself to care over that tbh
 
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I'm not saying it sells the product to someone looking, What it can do is sell the product to someone who isnt.

for example. A man spots a poster due to boobies(which you know, generally does happen) See's an offer on something he needs yet wasn't considering purchasing from that particular retailer.


Boobies + The offer = Sale

This. It grabs attention, regardless of the product. If you can't draw people to the product, they're not going to even look.

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From a long-time poster/lurker and female, it feels like OcUK is treading a fine line.

Yes, the forum is dark blue, with macho avatars.
Yes, there's the tongue-in-cheek images of sexy ladies on monitors (that's always amused me).
Yes there are occasional babe threads.

All the above has always been fine. But something has changed away from the tongue-in-cheek and into perv territory.

It's only a slight swing, but OcUK has gone from a place that I have for years felt comfortable with participating in, and where the moderation (despite thinking it strict at times) team has kept up a sense of decorum - to an increasingly uncomfortable, sexist, racist, homophobic place.

Adding booth babes (which I thought had already become unfashionable at these shows? Maybe it depends on the show) and actively encouraging posting of more and more boobs only makes me feel less comfortable.

Maybe over the years I have become more aware of skewed attitudes?

I certainly think I am no longer OcUK's target demographic. If I ever was. It appears to have narrowed.

I have largely been hanging out in Photography and Video but since some of the respected members have ceased to post there, maybe it's time to go.
 
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Like I said the difference between the genders is that the male body rarely gets used to sell anything.

That's because it's only effective in two areas. Chasing the pink pound or stupid women.

Most women i know in real life look at the CK style male models and just laugh as it looks ridiculous. To them they are not real men a very few women think they look sexy at all.

They gave it a fair go in the 90's with CK ad's all over the place for aftershave and underwear but notice now you hardly see them? That because it simply doesn't work. Men don't want be associated to the faggness(TM) of male models so they stay away from brands that push said image.
 
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