so update folks, my boss was in for well over an hour or so and after dukeing it out and it came down to a he shouldn't of given permission if we were already told no, as we should have argued back at them why we should have gone and it made us look silly apparently. We got a just dont do it again and clearly the situation was blown well out of control ..."shock" ......
So someone got embarrased that you did something in your own time that they said not to do, ergo making them look like a goon but against no company policy?
amiright?