Been together 4 years and its came to an end last night on the phone.
Most of it has been long distance and for a while we have been trying to arrange to be together in our own place, it has never posed as a problem since I have free rail travel card to see her whenever I could. I stuck with her through so much, when she had no one and no job, I had friends and rang her, went to see her and comfort her.
Now the tables have turned and while I feel I dont have that much (apart from her) she has got a small group of friends to hang and go out with where she is lives, I always wanted her to have something like this as I felt sorry for her, but now she has, she left me in the dump
. It is quite the same typical textbook end to most relationships ending tbh.
So many memories, I am finding it really hard but the support on here and other sites really gives me hope that time will heal and for me to get off my backside and make a new start.
I felt we we're perfect together and she is my best friend and I'm hers, she wants to stay friends (long great phone call convos), but till when? till she finds whatever she wants to cut me off off completely? (if she hasn't already) I dont think so, while I love her and find it painful I cannot be used just incase she feels down one day, and as a option as her new found 'glory of going out not having something hanging over me days' doesnt work out. I cant do that .
She has got what she wants and she has it better than I do right now, I can't watch her do everything and hear about it while it eats me up inside. Also the time not talking and not having me in her life might make her see what she has lost, if she is at all bothered, surely its not fair for her to have best of both worlds?
Need to move on with thing to do, keep my mind off, friends, gym and make a start on my career, it is just hard keeping my mind off her, I feel she was the only one.
Blegh, it felt good to type it out, if anyone read it.