Hey guys,
I'm in a bit of a pickle here and it seems to be all down to being the nice guy. I'm not going to pour out feelings or want someone to hug me here, I'd just like some advice on going forward.
Short story, girlfriend (just over 1 year) thinks we may just be becoming friends. Now the relationship started passionately, very much so in-fact. Obviously that's waned off somewhat but... what do I do to stop being 'the friend'. She doesn't want to go as far as to end it, I've prodded her for that, because she couldn't imagine not seeing me, or imagine me with another lady.
I've already made a conscious decision not to see her as often (5 days a week at the moment ), spice up the sex again, and to get out a bit more. But is there anything else you guys can advise? Throw anything my way
Carl
I'm in a bit of a pickle here and it seems to be all down to being the nice guy. I'm not going to pour out feelings or want someone to hug me here, I'd just like some advice on going forward.
Short story, girlfriend (just over 1 year) thinks we may just be becoming friends. Now the relationship started passionately, very much so in-fact. Obviously that's waned off somewhat but... what do I do to stop being 'the friend'. She doesn't want to go as far as to end it, I've prodded her for that, because she couldn't imagine not seeing me, or imagine me with another lady.
I've already made a conscious decision not to see her as often (5 days a week at the moment ), spice up the sex again, and to get out a bit more. But is there anything else you guys can advise? Throw anything my way
Carl