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Wow. Sounds like you've got a bit of an axe to grind.
There's no evidence that the OP is mistreating the dog. Getting irritated/exasperated with her is no indication of how he treats her, he is just explaining how the situation has made him feel.
How about toning down the inflammatory comments and instead formulating a constructive reply with any advice you can offer on the situation, rather than just berating the OP? He obviously does care, or he wouldn't be attempting to seek advice to remedy the situation.
Im only going off what the op has said in his post eg
"The problem is my place has no Garden and we're surrounded by concrete. My dog is incredibly fussy about going toilet on the concrete and demands grass 99% of the time.
This is a real pain in the arse for me. I will walk her around the block in the morning (when I KNOW she needs to go) and we will walk the whole circuit and she still hasn't gone and we're now back home."
"When I'm on the PC like now she demands she sits curled up at my feet under the desk near all the cables which is really annoying / restrictive and dangerous.
When I tell her to go away to a new spot she just stares at me and disobeys me which results in me losing my temper because she's being defiant and I man handle her to move."
"Can someone please help me because this kind of behaviour is not what I want and I'm finding her really irritating."
So im guessing my axe to grind is justified no? The simple solution would be take her to the vets then take her back to the country to live with his mum???