Still have a few more days before we meet to think about it but still very torn between the 2.
You met a woman and she was great while you were dating and seeing each other a few times a week. You moved in together and got to know her better. Then you found out that the person you though she was is in fact an act she put on (consciously or not) during the early honeymoon period. Now you've got to know her better, you know what she's really like deep down, not just the superficial mask everyone puts on for the rest of the world.
It seems like you are stuck because you remember what she was like to begin with. You want the return of all those feelings and that happiness you had at the beginning. But that's not who she really is. That was the personality she put on to make you happy in the early days. That was the person who got you engaged and nearly down as the owner on half your house. The person who nearly married you.
I think you've got to realise that's not who she is. The person you know now, the one who stresses you out, is who she really is. If you'd known her that way at the beginning, would you have even got past a few dates? You're romanticising her as the woman you put on a pedestal at the beginning of the relationship (which a lot of men do), and you need to decide what you want based on who you now know her to be, not how you want her to be. That fantasy woman isn't inside you're fiancée, it's only in your head.
gwyneth paltrow is available lads.
heck she put up with chris martin, you're in with a chance.
Sure will lol, even if it does work out for you, how could you go on knowing she has already done cheated with her last. You could be next
Started seeing a girl from work with a BF....this can only end badly right?
You're a terrible person.
How would you feel if your girlfriend was seeing someone else behind your back? Oh, and she sounds like a classy girl. Enjoy your cocktail of Penis loving infections!
You're a terrible person.
How would you feel if your girlfriend was seeing someone else behind your back? Oh, and she sounds like a classy girl. Enjoy your cocktail of Penis loving infections!
I agree with this, horrible thing to do to somebody you never met. Also do you want to start seeing a girl like that?
I know its bad, but how can I help it? She is the one that has come on to me in all honesty. Tells me her BF treats her like **** and is close to ending the relationship.
Calling me a terrible person is a bit unfair, I haven't "slept" with her yet either.
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How can you help it? By saying you can't see her while she still has a boyfriend. If you really want to go out with her fine, but at least wait till she has officially ended it.
I know its bad, but how can I help it? She is the one that has come on to me in all honesty. Tells me her BF treats her like **** and is close to ending the relationship.
Calling me a terrible person is a bit unfair, I haven't "slept" with her yet either.
See above
I know its bad, but how can I help it? She is the one that has come on to me in all honesty. Tells me her BF treats her like **** and is close to ending the relationship.
Calling me a terrible person is a bit unfair, I haven't "slept" with her yet either.
See above