Thank you again so so so much for the kind words and advice. I will be getting intouch with SANDS to arrange a fundraiser at work for the research into what causes stillbirths. My wife is putting on a brave face but I know deep down she is not well mentally, physically she is drained. She fainted in the shower while I was there and I thought I had lost her too.
In the end I keep holding on to the good thoughts we at least got to see him and hold him. We got the handprint and footprint that the hospital have done. They've been really supportive despite being short staffed. We need the NHS and we need to praise the people who do work for it.
I've realised a lot about life in the last 24 hours. All I'm trying to do is stay strong for my wife and family. The words keep echoing in my head and will do for a long time but it will not break me, my baby would be upset and he wouldn't like me to fail as a parent.
The hardest part will be when we have to say goodbye. I've lost friends and family and I feel that I can handle it, but when it's your own child, I feel no word can justify actually saying goodbye. No action can justify it, nothing can. Not now not ever.