Apologies for the bump, but i'm having a really hard time at the minute and feel I can express myself on here, and i didn't want to create a new thread as i didn't really want to explain everything again.
It's Ivy's birthday this Thursday, and these past few weeks i've just been a complete mess
since the 17th of last month i've just been dreading this day coming and it's getting closer and closer. My anxiety has been through the roof, and i've started having regular anxiety attacks. We still have our weekly counseling sessions at bluebell wood which i have no idea where i would be now without them. My depression has hit a low, to the point i'm off to see my GP on Tuesday to talk about possibly going onto some medication, the recent stories in the news about other families going through horrible times with their children has really knocked me back as well .The thing that's making everything really difficult is i cannot have anytime off work paid, as i had to use my 2 weeks of sick pay i'm allowed when she passed away, as i was only entitled to 3 days.
We have recently been to the hospital for the results of a number of tests we have had to see why we keep having the miscarriages, and have been told we can start trying again, but the wife will have to have daily injections to help with the problems we seem to have...which is a small price to pay if it means we can carry another baby full term, and we will be having scans every 2 weeks which has eased our mind a little
We don't know what we are going to do Thursday, I have booked Wednesday to Friday off work as there isn't a chance i could go to work...i don't know how im going to cope with tomorrow and Tuesday in all fairness. We don't know whether we want to have a party for her, whether we go to Whitby as it was the only place out of Sheffield we ever took her, so it was her "holiday", or whether we are just going to lock the doors and stay in the house on our own all day...i think we are just going to see what we feel like on the day.
I want to thank everyone again for the support on here, the money raised really does go to such a good cause and i am forever grateful for the donations, as well as allowing me to use this forum to vent my feelings, which i generally can only speak to my wife and counselor about.
Sorry for the long post, but i already feel better having gotten some of this out