They broke up in 2002 assuming the child was born that year its 15 now
What are the odds rhe xhild is now an adult?
husband cash in a divorce 15 years ago is told he must up her maintenance
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They broke up in 2002 assuming the child was born that year its 15 now
What are the odds rhe xhild is now an adult?
Caporegime
Must be love, love, love.
In my opinion outside of parent/child relationships love doesn't really exist in the way fairytales have you believe, it's not an everlasting thing, more of an in the moment feeling that can change on the fly. I mean when you look at how a lot of relationships and marriages end it becomes quite apparent one party or both never truly loved the other.
There are very few people who spend an entire lifetime with someone who've never thought about that "someone else" and if you do it's quite apparent you aren't in love or most likely never really were.
Monogamy doesn't really make a lot of sense when you look at the big picture or how we've evolved, it's quite a modern behaviour.
It's not misogynistic to ask why she can't take steps to support herself or at least cut her outgoings this long after divorce. Especially considering that she had money and squandered it.
If an ex of mine won the lottery 15 years after I divorced her and we had no children under 18, I would think it insane to expect a payout from her.
Soldato
He's married to someone else and has another child, sounds to me like she's jealous and can't let go..
She came out of the divorce with a pretty good deal, it's not his fault she's a ****..
She came out of the divorce with a pretty good deal, it's not his fault she's a ****..
Not all women want to pop out kids and to rip some poor bloke off. Sorry you're bitter but they're not "all the same"
Agreed that getting married is a silly idea these days though.
Soldato
The baiting is so obvious I will bite for fun
I don't think anyone here has any problems paying for their kids but when the dopey bitch took him to the cleaner, spunked it all and then expects more because of her poor choices... Doesn't quite cut it with me.
With regards to the gender roles being reversed.... it doesn't happen. Cite me 5 examples where the woman was the breadwinner, the guy got custody and then the woman paid maintenance to the guy, the guy spunked the money and then gets more from the woman.
The above wouldn't happen anyway as 99% fo the time the bloke doesn't even get custody
Soldato
Not sure if you are 60 and bitter or baiting hard for the white knights but regardless of which.... hilarious read
Soldato
I would like to know why people get married after not much time together at all? By the time me and my girlfriend get married, we'll probably have been together 15 or more years.
Caporegime
The balls of that woman to go back after so much time with her begging bowl...
What a terrific system.
What a terrific system.
It's his fault for not getting a clean break divorce settlement at some between now and then and just thinking giving the stupid cow his money in the first place would shut her up.
When I got divorced just over 10 years ago I got a clean break, shes not been able to make a claim on any of the properties I've bought or been left since then, my increased earnings, or claim anything at all in fact.
It's been quite funny, the bitterness has been very real.
When I got divorced just over 10 years ago I got a clean break, shes not been able to make a claim on any of the properties I've bought or been left since then, my increased earnings, or claim anything at all in fact.
It's been quite funny, the bitterness has been very real.
The facility was there for the guy to stop this happening, he didn't make use of it.
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A clean break is not always aloud.
Man of Honour
I agree that hasty marriages rarely end well but 15 years seems a little excessive.
Soldato
Lies
Soldato
Why? Sure it seems a long time but we aren't ready or rushing into these things. To us it's more important to just simply be together than it is to have our name in marriage.
She also only works 2 days a week..... and they really couldn't think of anyway that she could get more money
i suppose beause for most people a 15 year relationship would be about half thier concious life span.