The guy who picks his ass then feeds you.. good luck!
I NEVER wanted kids.. not remotely, got shoved into it by my missus, (she's older than me) kids or we are finished, because I (her) want kids.. yep, read the riot act.. So I thought it'll take time, nope, within 2 months.. (my dad says well we are fertile ) bang here we go... I will tell you this, if you are there and see them born, both of mine literally in my hands, they transcend anything beforehand. People saying it's great not having kids, honestly having a piece of you, and watching it learn, etc.. you miss out on a huge amount of life. It costs a lot, both in money and you (if you do it right),. Kids make a world of difference, aside from giving up basically all of your time, they will test you, and your relationship, they will test you! Best thing that ever happened to me, I couldn't imagine life without them, I'd do anything for them, it's scarey what you would do.. murder? What can I say, rest assured I'd do damn near anything for my kids.. People who don't have, a bit crap and a bit weird, that's the way society judges.