Soldato
Really?
In 2005 I had an accident the insurance assessor placed repairs at £4500 so they were trying to right it off I refused this as the damage was nowhere near as bad as he was saying it was so accepted Cash in Lieu of repair it cost me £350 in parts from eBay, (new bumper and bull bar), pocketed the rest of the cash.
Following year my insurance went down by £50.......
I daresay the insurance game has changed a *lot* over the past 12 years. When you're looking for your next renewal, add a non fault claim and let me know how many come back less than they were before Most will come back 10-20% higher.
This seems a strange attitude to me. I'd have to put my own time and money into fixing the car and potentially get a bad colour match with a wing from a different car. Quite simply why should I when it was their fault for not paying attention?
I guess the main reason would be because I was worried my car would be written off, but it was very interesting what Iamzod did and it clearly worked for him, I would certainly take this advice if I needed again on a car not worth much, I wasn't really aware you could be like that with insurers.
In the end (if anyone really cares!) the guy paid out the full amount from the quotes I got so I've been very lucky to get someone so cooperative.
I find it a strange attitude that you said you "didn't want him to get away with it" and seemingly wanted to punish the guy for a momentary lapse of concentration. You wouldn't have put your own money into it at all, you would have done what others said above and charged him £100-150 for it - £50 for the wing and £50-100 for your time and effort.
And from my experience of bodyshops, you're more likely to get a better fit and finish fitting an original factory painted part that's the same age as the rest of the car, than having one super shiny, brand new, slightly off shade panel whilst the rest of the car is covered in swirl marks, scratches and faded paint. I guess the value of the car is also a consideration - unless you own Fox's E39 or are of a similar attitude towards it, I can't say I'd be all that precious about it, but hey, that's just me.
You haven't actually mentioned what the car is, but I'm guessing from how worried you are about it, it's something a bit special and in super clean nick?