I'm way out of my depth here so might be talking complete rubbish and/or already a theory - but what if matter has to be able to [potentially] be observed? - that instead of the wave function collapsing inside a black hole when matter reaches a point of incoherence where it is no longer able for it to possibly be observed it essentially ends up anywhere - even possibly other universes due to the nature of as per the wave function.
EDIT: Though that should be measurable with its mass taking into account time dilation assuming gravity behaves similarly.
The truth is, according to Albert Einstein’s theory of general relativity, at the centre of every black hole is a singularity, a point at which all matter collapsing in ends up in an infinitely small space where density and gravity become infinite and space-time curves infinitely. The current laws of physics we have break down at this point and quantum effects then become important. Unfortunately, general relativity provides no basis for working out what happens next. The same problem crops up when trying to explain the big bang, which is thought to have started with a singularity. So in 2006, physicists applied loop quantum gravity to the birth of the universe. LQG combines general relativity with quantum mechanics and defines space-time as a web of indivisible chunks of about 10-35 metres in size. The team found that as they rewound time in an LQG universe, they reached the big bang, but no singularity – instead they crossed a quantum bridge into another, older, universe. This is the basis for the big bounce theory for the origins of our universe. It is also why I named this thread "Infinity and The Big Bang", because if string theory is correct then time stretches back infinitely and also has no end.
This is what I was hoping to explain to dowie earlier in the thread, be he's so arrogant he wouldn't read my links and just asserted I was incorrect and that he was right. The truth is, String Theory may be a model that turns out to be a theory of everything which I find very exciting. It's a work in progress and we may not get the answers in our lifetime, but maybe we will. It's something I'd like to understand fully before I croak.