No it does not get easier but you do learn to live with it.The pain of my losses has never left me, although over time it's become easier to deal with normal life again.
I can't even contemplate how severe a loss like yours will have been, only wish with all my heart that you have been able to rediscover and enjoy some of the simple pleasures in life that fade so easily under such a dark cloud. The little things that pop into our awareness once in a while to show us how special and magical life can be.
Its something you never get over there's not a day I don't think of him.