Touchy feely friends

ethan · 25 Feb 2019 at 19:54

Spiritual Platonic love. Is it possible to love a friend and already be in a loving relationship with a wife or husband? I am happily married, for example. However, I have some amazing friends and I'm sure I love them all in some way. The sort of problem (not sure if this is the right word) is that my friends are all really exorbitant when it comes to displaying their emotions and I am quite often/always getting hugged, kissed and touched by them. I've become quite used to it now but sometimes it leaves me quite confused and unaware and overwhelmed, as to how to respond.

arknor · 25 Feb 2019 at 21:23

friend zone them

Sankari · 26 Feb 2019 at 03:44

Touchy feely friends are great fun, just enjoy it!

Mercenary Keyboard Warrior · 26 Feb 2019 at 08:35

Do you want to show us on the doll where they are touching you?

inogen · 26 Feb 2019 at 09:37

I think the word you're looking for is exuberant, unless you're mates with expensive, touchy-feely hookers.

inogen · 26 Feb 2019 at 09:38

Mercenary Keyboard Warrior said:
Do you want to show us on the doll where they are touching you?

They're touching his wallet.

Dup · 26 Feb 2019 at 09:41

I'd have no issue with this, by my o/h would as she's not like that at all and it would bother her. That's the only issue I can see with such a situation. If you're cool with it and your o/h is then it's all good.

inogen · 26 Feb 2019 at 10:11

@Dup Your other half would have a problem with your mates being touchy-feely with you?

andy_mk3 · 26 Feb 2019 at 10:14

Nothing wrong with a friendly hello blowjob is there?

wolfie138 · 26 Feb 2019 at 12:52

i'd prefer you didn't to be honest.

something daft already!! · 26 Feb 2019 at 12:57

Try being a bit punchy and kicky with them in reply. That will show em!

Thecaferacer · 26 Feb 2019 at 12:57

I've never had that problem, but then I am known as "the Soviet" as I exhibit as much warmth as Arnie in Red Heat

Roar87 · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:03

I mean you can pretend you aren't attracted to other people of the opposite sex outside your relationship and let them hug and kiss you under the guise of friendship if you want, I'd personally just not mention it to your partner

byeo · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:04

andy_mk3 said:
Nothing wrong with a friendly hello blowjob is there?

dirtychinchilla · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:07

I have some very intimately acquainted questionably-straight male friends. Rarely resorts to kissing though.

It's generally pretty amusing.

robfosters · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:08

andy_mk3 said:
Nothing wrong with a friendly hello blowjob is there?

No, but you should ask first Andy. Some blokes don’t like that sort of thing.

Rifte · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:10

Really need to see photos of those that are doing the touching to determine the appropriate reaction.

HAz · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:22

All sounds a bit lardy da to me

ianh · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:24

If they have letterboxes - YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!

UberTiger · 26 Feb 2019 at 13:29

andy_mk3 said:
Nothing wrong with a friendly hello blowjob is there?

Blowjob or brojob? choo choo!

ethan said:
my friends are all really exorbitant when it comes to displaying their emotions and I am quite often/always getting hugged, kissed and touched by them.

Are these people the same or opposite sex ethan?

Are they slipping in a bit of tongue when kissing you? Or just on the cheek European style?