Who really cares about that.
So long as he's paying less than he is now he can build equity and savings to move up the ladder.
Currently he can't do anything
I agree.
A couple of years ago i was paying £400/month with a friend who was also paying £400/month for a small 2 bed apartment. It was ok but nothing special, not the best location but very close to work at least.
Those apartments to buy were £130k - after living there 3 years i looked at some.
After living there (and renting since i was 18, so 16 years) it was time to buy. Nicer apartments were renting at £1200+ /month in the better areas.
I had managed to save a good deposit and purchased the apartment im in now with a mortgage of £833/month. Bank of mum and dad did help somewhat with a gifted deposit but have been paying them it back (as i said i would) every month.
A few weeks after I moved in, there was an internal notice for a similar apartments in the same block as mine to rent. £1600/month. I’m not saying it was exactly like mine but close, so a good return on £833!
Renting just felt like i was paying someone elses mortgage. It was never ‘throwing money down the toilet’ as my dsd put it because at the end of the day it was like paying for a service. You still got the service but now at least i’ll have something to show for the money being paid.
Back on topic though, banks should care too much about babk of mum and dad. So long as they get their money back they shouldnt care at all. I had a gifted deposit but make over payments every month as have been doing overtime. I’m probably more commited to pay off my mortgage than the average person without a gifted deposit. I hate owing people money, especially when i’m paying interest