How does a guy like this get a girl like that?

BowdonUK · 7 Sep 2020 at 21:09

I don't think its a bad idea having a group full of men all helping each other socialise. I think it only becomes toxic when it becomes a pity party.

The problem I've seen with a lot of guys who get really down about women is they don't know how to be a man and enjoy male company. They seem to make being in a relationship the whole of their identity, and when that relationship crashes they crash too.

dowie · 7 Sep 2020 at 21:15

This is kinda an incel-ish thread... girl in the OP isn't particularly hot, maybe she's a bit of an introvert, maybe she doesn't care and just gets on really well with the little guy or maybe's she's got a fetish...

Anyway, not really as extreme an example as this:

Like the same possible questions there... is it genuine? Is it a fetish? Would she still be dating him if youtube/becoming a social media star wasn't a thing?

Gerard · 7 Sep 2020 at 21:17

dowie said:
This is kinda an incel-ish thread... girl in the OP isn't particularly hot, maybe she's a bit of an introvert, maybe she doesn't care and just gets on really well with the little guy or maybe's she's got a fetish...

Anyway, not really as extreme an example as this:

Like the same possible questions there... is it genuine? Is it a fetish? Would she still be dating him if youtube/becoming a social media star wasn't a thing?

She probably wanted to get a train ran on her and a Wheelchair was a good compromise? :eek:

dowie · 7 Sep 2020 at 21:19

Gerard said:
She probably wanted to get a train ran on her and a Wheelchair was a good compromise?

You're going straight to hell for that!

Gerard · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:00

dowie said:
You're going straight to hell for that!

Already there.

Watched a couple of their vids, she really doesn't strike me as someone who wants to be there for some reason. Her whole manner seems very forced.

firstborn · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:04

robj20 said:
It's threads like this that remind me the average age of the people on this forum must be about 12.

That about sums it up.

Gray2233 · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:16

[FnG]magnolia said:
You can probably google this but Elliot Rodgers was a poster on the Something Awful forums and was an incel before that terminology existed. He was also a likely crazy person. Also, an American (this becomes important shortly). So, as well as writing increasingly awkward and sometimes slightly scary posts on said forum, Elliot decided he'd write a manifesto and upload a retribution video to youtube before … remember that important bit I mentioned earlier? … he stabbed three men to death at his house (or apartment, I can't remember exactly), drove to his frat house and shot a couple of women outside, drove around town a bit more and (IIRC) killed a few more people and also had a pop at some police before crashing his car and shooting himself.

Elliot had a strong hatred for women, amplified by the constant rejection he faced from them. He'd had a pretty troubling upbringing, was bullied and suggestions of mental health issues.

OK, that's enough school for one day.

e: MGTOW is an acronym for Men Going Their Own Way. They're a pretty sad bunch but you can read more about it yourself if you're inclined (but don't, it's terribly depressing).

He was a very troubled young man.

Roar87 · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:28

Gray2233 said:
He was a very troubled young man.

I used to visit bb.com around that time, don't really remember him

Gerard · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:30

Yeah he was a whiny little bitch.

Gray2233 · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:34

Roar87 said:
I used to visit bb.com around that time, don't really remember him

You're lucky.

His sense of entitlement was next level, he genuinely believed he had some god given right to have a 'girlfriend' because he was better than other guys because he drove a BMW or other random reasons.

I remember him having a lot of sock accounts on some websites due to getting banned/blocked regularly.

[FnG]magnolia · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:40

"This is very unsettling" is still one hell of a punchline

I didn't realise he posted on Misc as well as SA because that screengrab is almost word for word what I remember from one of his SA threads. Assume he copied/pasted a lot as his numerous accounts were revealed/banned/started up again.

Begbie · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:49

The amount of average and she's a 6 posts on here are quite embarrassing. Who cares who cares whom, if all is legal etc of course, it's really all irrelevant.

Akagi · 7 Sep 2020 at 22:49

Gray2233 said:

Gray2233 said:
His sense of entitlement was next level, he genuinely believed he had some god given right to have a 'girlfriend' because he was better than other guys because he drove a BMW or other random reasons.

Sounds like we need to keep a close eye on some members of this forum...

jpod · 7 Sep 2020 at 23:11

She is making a massive mistake. Hung like a squirrel. At least he will always look up to her.

Bassmansam · 7 Sep 2020 at 23:16

[FnG]magnolia said:
You can probably google this but Elliot Rodgers was a poster on the Something Awful forums and was an incel before that terminology existed. He was also a likely crazy person. Also, an American (this becomes important shortly). So, as well as writing increasingly awkward and sometimes slightly scary posts on said forum, Elliot decided he'd write a manifesto and upload a retribution video to youtube before … remember that important bit I mentioned earlier? … he stabbed three men to death at his house (or apartment, I can't remember exactly), drove to his frat house and shot a couple of women outside, drove around town a bit more and (IIRC) killed a few more people and also had a pop at some police before crashing his car and shooting himself.

Elliot had a strong hatred for women, amplified by the constant rejection he faced from them. He'd had a pretty troubling upbringing, was bullied and suggestions of mental health issues.

OK, that's enough school for one day.

e: MGTOW is an acronym for Men Going Their Own Way. They're a pretty sad bunch but you can read more about it yourself if you're inclined (but don't, it's terribly depressing).

thank you. Thats quite shocking, his mind really must have been screwed to that stuff. Maybe someone told him when he was young that he could have whatever girl he wants or something similar.

lunar · 7 Sep 2020 at 23:38

I recall about 30 years ago a relative of mine (who was good looking) grew up with a girl that lived nearby. They were good friends. When she was 18, she was very good looking. He wanted to marry her. She was thrilled and became engaged.
Then out of the blue at the age of 18 she got married to a 55 year old man, who was over-weight and not good looking. But he was wealthy.

Gerard · 7 Sep 2020 at 23:46

lunar said:
Then out of the blue at the age of 18 she got married to a 55 year old man, who was over-weight and not good looking. But he was wealthy.

Funny how that works isn't it, a big bank account can surpass almost anything. Gold diggers everywhere.

Roar87 · 7 Sep 2020 at 23:54

Gray2233 said:
You're lucky.

His sense of entitlement was next level, he genuinely believed he had some god given right to have a 'girlfriend' because he was better than other guys because he drove a BMW or other random reasons.

I remember him having a lot of sock accounts on some websites due to getting banned/blocked regularly.

To be fair it would've been hard to differentiate between someone genuine and someone trolling at that point in time

Gerard said:
Funny how that works isn't it, a big bank account can surpass almost anything. Gold diggers everywhere.

To be fair wealth is actually an attractive trait to women, they aren't necessarily gold digging so much as just genuinely finding them attractive.

Psycho Sonny · 8 Sep 2020 at 00:04

Gerard said:
Funny how that works isn't it, a big bank account can surpass almost anything. Gold diggers everywhere.

I'm sure Dinklage could get a better looking gold digger than ops video. Its likely just a normal situation where he's doing okay but not loaded.

Nelly · 8 Sep 2020 at 03:16

It's simple, women in general think midgets are cute, back in the early 90s, I used to go clubbing with a work colleague who was just over 4ft tall, all the top fanny used to randomly just come upto him all the time and chat him up lol.