Awful news, been seeing a lot of it lately too. Someone I know heard they had 12 months and went on a bender only to die due to exposure in the cold last week. Don't drink *too* much (but do enjoy yourself now
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What SexyGreyFox said, I'd be happy to contribute to help towards something that helps in any way.
At least now you know and aren't in limbo anymore. I truly hope you can make the most of what you have and you and your family find the best closure they can on this journey.
You'll also go down in OcUK legend for any birthday messages