As for getting into the dray once its in bridged mode... its possible but you have to **** about with vlans and all that crap - fine down the line but if you have just got it working its a pita
I would just disconnect it from your lan, plug it into your pc and access it direct to its 192.168.2.x address (which i assume you left it on)
As above it's a PITA to get working. My sysadmin friend got it set up for me with VLANs.
These are my settings I shared some time ago, I'm using pfSense so will be a little different than your Asus router.
https://imgur.com/gallery/Xykm7Cf
Cheers, just switched cables to get into it. MTU was empty, so I assume at default. Set to 1492 now....seems little better?
I'm still seeing packets dropped though, which is puzzling. The Sky router was fine connection wise....
Is it likely to need to settle down for a while?