VIRII said:
How do you "understand" stoning gays and circumcising young girls?
What exactly is there to understand? What common ground are you going to be able to find there?
Enough to persuade them that they are wrong in their interpretation, so that they can be made to see an alternative and cease such barbarities. To understand enough to support those within a culture opposed to such barbarities. Otherwise whats the alternative?
If we want peace between the different cultures then we need to seperate them and avoid as much inter cultural contact as possible. Trying to understand just seems to result in serious contempt of "corrupt western lifestyles" followed by bombings and death.
We live on one planet with an irregular spread of finite resources, we cannot live seperate lives.
The west is to a much greater extent than people realise an innocent bystander in an internal dispute being fought within Islam. Its not just Sunni v Shia, its the spreading of the austere reactionary Wahhabi form of Islam. The origins of 9/11 can be traced back to Sadaam Husseins invasion of Kuwait. The invitiation by the Saudis to the US for military help angered OBL especially as his offer of 'help' had been rejected.
Understanding that the enemy isn't all of Islam, its the faction within thats divided the world into the people of heaven and the people of hell and with it a puritanical understanding of the first pillar.