Soldato
I'm sure many people here have read or heard on the news about the problem with bullies in schools.
I had a small problem myself when i was younger, which wasnt such a big deal, but its not nice for the person at the receiving end. My brother also became a target which as in my own experience and my brothers the school did next to nothing and were useless in providing a solution, and this is the Winston Churchill School which is apparently one of the good ones.
In short nothing worked, so myself plus one of my friends grabbed one of my brothers bullies and told him to pass on a message to his mates and consider himself. I don't need to tell you what was said, but he was clearly told that its not in his interest to terrorize my brother. No we didnt kick his teeth in or threaten to kill him, but it was enough in the sense that he never got bullied again.
With all that said, literally 10-15 mins ago 2 kids 14 maybe 15yrs old out the back of where i live, 1 kid insisting he hand over his phone and following him, this soon turned to the kid being put to the floor and wrestling for his phone.
I couldnt watch and do nothing so i ran out and confronted the attacker. The guy said nothing and walked away, didnt look like he wanted to confront me (i'm a tad bigger then the victim). The victim at this point was partly in tears and quite afraid because he's a bus journey from home and this other kid is waiting for him. So i bring inside and tell him to ring someone to pick him up. Whilst waiting i couldnt help but inquire as to if he knows the other kid, and it turns out this other guy (who no longer turns up for school) was once his best mate, but no longer friends (story unknown) but seems to think he can take his phone to sell for cash.
So naturally i ask him if he's gonna report the guy or talk to the school.
Nope.
and nope.
During this child sitting shall i say this guy has someone else ring the victim so he can talk to him, and although i can't hear the other guy, the victim is insisting he cant have the phone, so i can only speculate he's still harassing him for the phone. On top of this the kid is replying with words like " so you're gonna jack my bike and get me after school tomorrow. why? ".
I can understand a person's reluctance to report the kid since he'll only terrorized even more if he does. Which in fairness is correct in the real world.
So i saved someone for a day, come tomorrow i won't be there.
The attacker kid, i've seen around here before, so i know i can spot him again.
The problem i have is, i don't know the names of either kid, it really wasnt my business to interegate the kid when he'd just been assaulted but i did try and make sure he felt safe so didnt want to sound like an ass by being nosey. Should i leave it at that?..... what do you guys think?....
1. Reporting the kid could result in further abuse for the other child
2. I don't know the names
3. Since the kids know where i live now it could cause hassle for me and my family
Hmmmmmm can't help but feel i should do more though.
I had a small problem myself when i was younger, which wasnt such a big deal, but its not nice for the person at the receiving end. My brother also became a target which as in my own experience and my brothers the school did next to nothing and were useless in providing a solution, and this is the Winston Churchill School which is apparently one of the good ones.
In short nothing worked, so myself plus one of my friends grabbed one of my brothers bullies and told him to pass on a message to his mates and consider himself. I don't need to tell you what was said, but he was clearly told that its not in his interest to terrorize my brother. No we didnt kick his teeth in or threaten to kill him, but it was enough in the sense that he never got bullied again.
With all that said, literally 10-15 mins ago 2 kids 14 maybe 15yrs old out the back of where i live, 1 kid insisting he hand over his phone and following him, this soon turned to the kid being put to the floor and wrestling for his phone.
I couldnt watch and do nothing so i ran out and confronted the attacker. The guy said nothing and walked away, didnt look like he wanted to confront me (i'm a tad bigger then the victim). The victim at this point was partly in tears and quite afraid because he's a bus journey from home and this other kid is waiting for him. So i bring inside and tell him to ring someone to pick him up. Whilst waiting i couldnt help but inquire as to if he knows the other kid, and it turns out this other guy (who no longer turns up for school) was once his best mate, but no longer friends (story unknown) but seems to think he can take his phone to sell for cash.
So naturally i ask him if he's gonna report the guy or talk to the school.
Nope.
and nope.
During this child sitting shall i say this guy has someone else ring the victim so he can talk to him, and although i can't hear the other guy, the victim is insisting he cant have the phone, so i can only speculate he's still harassing him for the phone. On top of this the kid is replying with words like " so you're gonna jack my bike and get me after school tomorrow. why? ".
I can understand a person's reluctance to report the kid since he'll only terrorized even more if he does. Which in fairness is correct in the real world.
So i saved someone for a day, come tomorrow i won't be there.
The attacker kid, i've seen around here before, so i know i can spot him again.
The problem i have is, i don't know the names of either kid, it really wasnt my business to interegate the kid when he'd just been assaulted but i did try and make sure he felt safe so didnt want to sound like an ass by being nosey. Should i leave it at that?..... what do you guys think?....
1. Reporting the kid could result in further abuse for the other child
2. I don't know the names
3. Since the kids know where i live now it could cause hassle for me and my family
Hmmmmmm can't help but feel i should do more though.