bakes0310 said:
cheers for the support ppl
Im sat here trying to clear my head and i know theres nothing really wrong with it in my eyes. But its everyone else that sees it as really funny joke and i know you will all say you shouldnt give a damn of what other ppl think but i do
Nothing wrong with it at all mate, I know it sounds stupid but you'll understand that when you've lost it. My advice is don't let it get you down, sadly people will always gossip about it until something new comes along for them to talk about.
I started seeing a girl who at 24 was still a virgin, she found it difficult to talk about and seemed embarrassed but I really didn't see it as anything more than someone not knowing how to drive.
If it bothers you that much take a trip to Amsterdam, if you decide to "do the deed" then it's done for, on the other hand personally I wouldn't be pressured into it, a win win could be going to Amsterdam (nice city for a weekend) telling everyone you lost it and then just waiting till the right women comes along. (do tell her that it's your first time, any decent girl will understand and put in a bit of extra effort
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