ok in your interview with kitguru you said you were benching about 185 when in training @ 8-10 reps and 140 now your not, so....
140 bench
115 incline (approx. 80% of your bench weight)
and I could be wrong but I think barbell row is usually similar to your bench so I'll stick with 140 again
so 395 in total
happy belated birthday dude