Man of Honour
Ah, well then...
BrightonBelle said:Cheating is a bad thing, she doesn't deserve you and if she chooses to stay with you, you are one VERY lucky man, but don't think in the back of her mind she isn't thinking 'what if he does it again'.
qwerty said:That's the problem with all the 'tell her and get it over and done with' posts. Things will NEVER be the same again after I tell her. She'll never forget it, even if I get over it, she'll never trust me out on my own, she'll be able to justify it if she finds herself in the same position.
qwerty said:That's the problem with all the 'tell her and get it over and done with' posts. Things will NEVER be the same again after I tell her. She'll never forget it, even if I get over it, she'll never trust me out on my own, she'll be able to justify it if she finds herself in the same position.
nero120 said:should have thought about that before having your fun, shouldnt you? Ah well, live and learn. The great thing is, if you dont tell her, you get to be a spineless cheat, underserved of respect or trust from anyone and never to feel good about yourself ever again! So, what time are you going to spill the beans...?
Rich_L said:My, you seem remarkably miserable today , do you need a boob op?
I wouldnt say noRich_L said:My, you seem remarkably miserable today , do you need a boob op?
Platinum Pete said:All these people saying if you really loved her then you wouldn't have slept with someone else:
I'm sorry but the human brain doesn't work like that. We are pre-designed to go for short term reward over long term happiness.
Gaygle said:TO THE PERSON A FEW POSTS UP WHO CHEATED ON HER BF
How long did you carry going out with the guy you had cheated on while not lovin him? what were you like towards him?
qwerty said:I searched and there doesn't seem to be a cheating thread on here. I just want to know peoples opinions on it.
Should you tell the people involved, or try to keep it secret forever?
If people get suspicious should you come clean or go deeper with the lies?
Is it ever justifiable?
How do I stop thinking about it and how bad a person I am?
goldilocks said:firstly i think it depends on what you class as cheating
there's a bit of a difference between a drunken snog with the wrong girl, and being up all night nailing her to the wall
the first may be forgivable, the second is probably never
and secondly, might it happen again?
if the answer to that is yes,
you need to tell her, and maybe you need to end it
becuase that is not a fair basis for a relationship
i cheated on a bf
i had fallen out of love with him months ago, and fell in love with someone else
i feel guilty and sorry - but i wouldn't have changed what happened
my 'partner in crime' has been my bf for the last three months, and he means more to me than anyone before ever has
would i cheat on him? no, never
he is everything i could ask for, or could ever have dreamed of, and i would never want to jeopardise that
TripleT said:Never tell the people, unless you're a **** like me and you want to upset your girlfriend who you are splitting up with.
Laugh it off with even more lies (if you're good at it).
Easily justifiable as long as you don't get REALLY deep into a relationship, keep it kinda casual with both parties.
You're not a bad person, you just have a short attention span
My helpful advice for this evening.