Why is it that if someone confronted me in public (or in front of friends) I would melt - but if I was on my own I'd be fine? I honestly don't know why. An example of this is, say if someone came up to me to start a fight, on my own I'd be fine but with friends I couldn't handle it? Sometimes I think it's the fact that I don't like being embarrassed, but I honestly don't know. Anyone got any answers because it's driving me insane .