If a woman chooses to emphasise her cleavage...

Le_Petit_Lapin · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:11

Skyfall said:
Am I missing something? Is there something wrong with looking at women?

Never said there was, but tutting at me afterwards! That's bad craic!

Muban · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:35

Le_Petit_Lapin said:
she obviously wants you to notice them

She didn't necessarily want you to notice them. However, she clearly did want someone to notice them. It's ok to look, it's ok to get caught (though silly and clearly demonstrates your lack of skill

), just don't letch for aggggeesss.

If I'm wearing a low cut top showing some cleavage I won't take offence if a guy looks or notices. But if we are sitting have a conversation and he spends more time looking at my boobs than my face I would think that's rude.

Well unless it's your partner then that can be ok

Gaygle · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:52

Muban said:
If I'm wearing a low cut top showing some cleavage I won't take offence if a guy looks or notices. But if we are sitting have a conversation and he spends more time looking at my boobs than my face I would think that's rude.

Just to confirm - you're a girl right?

^TANK^ · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:53

Camalot said:
If she flaunts it then she should expect guys to look!

Muban · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:54

Gaygle said:
Just to confirm - you're a girl right?

lol of course, I thought that was obvious

Now if a man had said that, that would be so so wrong! :eek:

^TANK^ · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:57

Female OcUK members should post pictures, just to make sure

!

V4NT0M · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:59

^TANK^ said:
Female OcUK members should post pictures, just to make sure!

?

Gaygle · 30 Sep 2009 at 19:59

Muban said:
lol of course, I thought that was obvious Now if a man had said that, that would be so so wrong!

You never know! I believe OcUK's clientele has somewhat changed in the past few years....

AtlanticP · 30 Sep 2009 at 20:04

malc30 said:
Looking is ok but grabbing a handful & squirting over them isn't according to my lawyer.

haha malc,

This subject reminds me of this flash game:

http://www.transbuddha.com/mediaHolder.php?id=722

^TANK^ · 30 Sep 2009 at 20:05

Skyfall said:
?

This.

leoncc · 30 Sep 2009 at 20:54

lolz this thread is made of win.

pirate · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:01

Honeslty, even if she's fully naked, gazing at her is pointless.

[FnG]magnolia · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:02

It's acceptable to look, unacceptable to be caught doing so and downright criminal to be caught knocking the bishop's hat off whilst looking.

According to my lawyer

Participant · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:03

pirate said:
Honeslty, even if she's fully naked, gazing at her is pointless.

Not pointless, enjoyment is achieved.

Dark_Angel · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:07

Muban said:
She didn't necessarily want you to notice them. However, she clearly did want someone to notice them. It's ok to look, it's ok to get caught (though silly and clearly demonstrates your lack of skill ), just don't letch for aggggeesss.

If I'm wearing a low cut top showing some cleavage I won't take offence if a guy looks or notices. But if we are sitting have a conversation and he spends more time looking at my boobs than my face I would think that's rude.

Well unless it's your partner then that can be ok

I'm sorry was you saying something there. I become distracted by errrr.... something!

Being serious for a moment (or 2) I think that's fair enough. Looking at someone you find attractive is fair and fine, but if you are just being gross or making rude comments then that isn't on.

(I'm a guy BTW).

Fuzz · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:09

As long as you were not kneading your dough with your hand in your pocket at the time it is to be expected.

aardvark · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:18

'caught' looking - look at what you want. What you look at is nobodies business, its a free country.

Sin_Chase · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:19

Flaunted? Looked at.

Simple really, avoiding getting caught is easy though. Sometimes it is worth getting caught for some HOT STEAMY eye contact!

Reminds me of an encounter which makes me laugh to this very day. Driving up a hill with on-road parking with my work colleague, pull up and are starting to display parking scratch card. Lovely bit of skirt walks down hill past our car, we both rubber neck and get a good eyefull as she does so, then a guy walking behind her has obviously clocked us and gives us the thumbs up as he walks past.

haha

Daveyboy · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:20

aardvark said:
'caught' looking - look at what you want. What you look at is nobodies business, its a free country.

And nobody can see the filthy things going on in one's mind whilst looking at said free views

Which is lucky coz i'd be locked up (or given a job as a porn director, one of the two)

^TANK^ · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:29

aardvark said:
'caught' looking - look at what you want. What you look at is nobodies business, its a free country.

Unless you're Gary Glitter

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