DaveyD said:
Though we don't know the full story, If the kid's not doing homework, failing school, wasting money, getting far too fat from no exercise and playing the Xbox 360 instead, fair play to the dad.
More or less what he said. However if it was just a control-freak parent who wanted his son to 'stop playing that new games console, games are stupid', then I think it was way, way out of line.
I don't see games as a bad thing at all, and if my kids wanted to play on a console, I don't see any problem with them playing it for as long as they wanted - as long as they weren't falling behind in school.
However - chucking it out of the windows removes the 'reward' for improving behaviour. Unless of course the Dad purchases a new X360 if his behaviour improves. Although going by a PC being held ransom in return, I would guess that wasn't on the table. Far better method (even if you're enraged) is to disable it in the simplist way possible (remove PSU brick), make it clear that it'll be returned when behaviour improves / homework complete / school improves. There's an incentive to improve, and its far more civilised. By destroying the console, instead of there being an insentive - there's a big reason for the son to retaliate. I doubt this event will be forgot for years to come. 'Son, wash the dishes', 'you destroyed my console, no chance'.
Kids pick up on the smallest of things, even if they don't realise it. Destroying a piece of equipment is sending a bad message.