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Meet the Parents

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by MookJong, 19 May 2006.

  1. MookJong


    Joined: 20 Mar 2006

    Posts: 7,916

    Well been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year and because she isn't from round here I have never met her parents.

    Next Sunday we are due to travel down to Leeds, go out on the town and then stay at her parents house for the night. Then we are going to the races on the Monday with them and some friends and family.

    Last night however she said her parents were coming up here tomorrow. They are taking her out to lunch and I am invited! I'd had a couple of pints so I said I would go.

    But waking up this morning I though Hmmm why would they bother coming up here when we are spending next weekend with them. Her parents are both professionals not short of money and give the impression they have high standards. So now I'm paranoid that this is some sort of vetting to see what I'm like before I'm allowed down there!

    Anyone else got any funny meet the parent stories or tips on how to get through a close encouter of the parent kind?
  2. The_KiD


    Joined: 19 Apr 2006

    Posts: 2,342

    Location: West Yorkshire

    Chill and be yourself, dont worry about being nervous, they will be expecting you to be.

    Just relax and I always find if your going out for food, then it is a good idea to offer to pay :) lets them know your not a free loader.
  3. MookJong


    Joined: 20 Mar 2006

    Posts: 7,916

    Yeah will deffo be offering to pay :)
  4. !bluetonic!


    Joined: 17 Nov 2005

    Posts: 2,664

    Location: Swindon, UK

    Put yourself in their position.

    If you had a daughter, what would be your requirements of a boyfriend for her?

    If their daughter is happy, you treat her well and respect them, I don't think you have a problem.

    If you get drunk at the races, steal from her dad's wallet and put it all on an outsider because you had a 'feeling', then better think again.
  5. Matt-Page


    Joined: 23 Nov 2004

    Posts: 3,621

    As bluetonic said, they are going to be thinking, hmm, our baby girl has a boyfriend now, i know what his intentions are, the same as most other blokes, lets scare him off!!!

    Only joking, i never had a problem meeting my other halfs parents, and i get on very well with them. Just as people have said, be yourself, and show them how much you two are happy together. Look after your girl, take her coat and pull her chair out for her. Offering to pay if you can afford to is a good idea, they will more than likely shout it if they are well off.

    Good luck to you mate, i hope it goes well, find out what there interests are from your girlfriend, so you can discuss them at the table, you don't want those awkward silences. It also shows you have spoke about them before and have put some thought into this meet.

    Haha i remember meeting my gf's dad, he made me drink shot after shot of whiskey and then grilled me with questions. I thought twice before every answer as i knew i was hammered, but tried not to show it.
  6. VeNT


    Joined: 9 Jan 2003

    Posts: 20,674

    Location: Cornwall

    don't forget to tell her that her mums fit
  7. playworker


    Joined: 16 Mar 2006

    Posts: 410

    Location: Telford

    Quoted for the truth :)

    Just chill out, they will be expecting you to be nervous, the sadistic ******** will probably enjoy watching you squirm :D
  8. AJUK

    Man of Honour

    Joined: 14 Nov 2003

    Posts: 10,949

    Slap her mum on the arse, wink and say "Oi,oi, Mrs P" (just use the first letter of her surname, anything works) and say "Lookin' good, Mr P" (same name rules apply) to her dad whilst high fiving him. :p

    Otherwise you can just be yourself but with better manners. ;)
  9. MookJong


    Joined: 20 Mar 2006

    Posts: 7,916

    Reading the responses isn't helping me feel any less nervous at all lol

    But it will make me more prepared, so that good.
  10. 4T5

    Man of Honour

    Joined: 30 Aug 2004

    Posts: 27,746

    Location: Middle of England

    As a father and a stepfather and a grandfather i can honestly say that all that matters is that you make the daughter happy.
    Yes it really is as simple as that. :)
  11. MookJong


    Joined: 20 Mar 2006

    Posts: 7,916

    Should be ok then, we have never fallen out even once since we have been going out.
  12. D4VE


    Joined: 23 Oct 2003

    Posts: 8,899

    Location: Hampshire, UK

    Might want to change your sig first, something might happen to them! :eek:
  13. MookJong


    Joined: 20 Mar 2006

    Posts: 7,916

  14. ihatelag

    Wise Guy

    Joined: 13 Apr 2006

    Posts: 1,139

    LMAO! That sort of happend to me :) *hides in shame* :)
  15. kitten_caboodle


    Joined: 21 Jul 2005

    Posts: 5,463

    Location: Frack off, nosey

    .....I could share experiences but I wouldn't want to scare you ;)

    /backs out of thread slowly
  16. Wossi


    Joined: 27 Oct 2003

    Posts: 4,996

    Location: East Mids.

    When I met my ex's dad for the first time we sat down, had a couple of beers, some smokes and talked about porn :D
  17. Nix


    Joined: 26 Dec 2005

    Posts: 19,841

    "Here's me and the missus..."

    *Gets coat*
  18. Beansprout

    Man of Honour

    Joined: 31 Jan 2004

    Posts: 16,313

    Location: Plymouth

    There's nothing to worry about, I heard they only get annoying when they become in-laws :eek:
  19. DRZ


    Joined: 2 Jun 2003

    Posts: 6,837

    Location: In the top 1%

    Already "met" them, kinda.

    Her meeting mine though, thats gonna be fun :/
  20. Blackstar


    Joined: 8 Jan 2005

    Posts: 3,063

    Location: Edinburgh

    You sat on the front wall and said nothing :p they seemed to like you though.
    I'm scared of meeting his he makes them sound scary :(
    Last edited: 19 May 2006