Not using it as a babysitting service at all, it has helped him in regards to development and social skills with other kids, it's worth every penny for that, however you see many a parents cheating system for various reasons whilst sitting at home doing **** all but they would get more help in regards to money than some one who works , you honestly think that's fair?
I work because I was brought up to know you work to get what you want not expect it given, I'll also tell my son the same when old enough you need to work etc, why do some people assume when you have a kid work should be given up? I don't work full time the Mrs does, I have friends who don't work who are perfectly healthy kids are 3 and benefits they get is more than my wage, you think that is a fair benefit system? I think your deluded if you do