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KaHn said:
I agree I'm afraid. It sounds pretty harsh but trust me, you wont get anything out of her by asking subtle questions.
I'm not really good at these things.. Hope things turn out ok though.
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I agree I'm afraid. It sounds pretty harsh but trust me, you wont get anything out of her by asking subtle questions.
I'm not really good at these things.. Hope things turn out ok though.
iCraig said:
I am telling the whole story or at least as much as i know...........Its not like i can get up and about and cheat on here or anything.......
Yes i have been a bit moody what with being in a wheel chair or stuck in my house just sitting in a chair all day.
But nothing over the top........I mean she got me a phone on 18month contract just before the bank holiday? why do that if she was having second thoughts?
WantoN said:Stop chasing her mate. You seem a little clingy. Either she'll see you or she won't, the more pressure you put on, the thicker that yellow stripe down her back will grow.
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Well to not talk to anyone for this amount of time is just frusttrating and its hard not to want to get to the bottom of things mate.
One other thing i will say not that it should make any difference is that she was a late bloomer.
She weighed at 29 years old 20 stone and was over a size 24 now she is around 15 but still battles with her weight and has recently lost a stone more.
Her weight how ever has never bothered me.
She had her first boy friend ever at 30 . She has 1 friend who isnt really a friend and more of a drinking buddy who she hardly ever sees anyway and she is early twentys and v.immature.
Her own mum and sister even say she is a stoppy miserable old cow lol
Her sister said to me this afternoon that she is no oil painting and is mad.
Im starting to think what the hell, i deserve better than this. Im not gonna let it get me down.
She weighed at 29 years old 20 stone and was over a size 24 now she is around 15 but still battles with her weight and has recently lost a stone more.
Her weight how ever has never bothered me.
She had her first boy friend ever at 30 . She has 1 friend who isnt really a friend and more of a drinking buddy who she hardly ever sees anyway and she is early twentys and v.immature.
Her own mum and sister even say she is a stoppy miserable old cow lol
Her sister said to me this afternoon that she is no oil painting and is mad.
Im starting to think what the hell, i deserve better than this. Im not gonna let it get me down.
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Sweet, is her sister cracking on to you?
Now get out there and abuse that sympathy vote in t'pubs
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You're 27?
Please do grow up then dude.
Please do grow up then dude.
That's nice mate, kick him while he's down.LeperousDust said:
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Nice reply there :0
I'd just relax for a few days - put her out of your mind, then a week later if she hasn't made contact its most likly over
I'd just relax for a few days - put her out of your mind, then a week later if she hasn't made contact its most likly over
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Gavin said:One other thing i will say not that it should make any difference is that she was a late bloomer.
She weighed at 29 years old 20 stone and was over a size 24 now she is around 15 but still battles with her weight and has recently lost a stone more.
Her weight how ever has never bothered me.
She had her first boy friend ever at 30 . She has 1 friend who isnt really a friend and more of a drinking buddy who she hardly ever sees anyway and she is early twentys and v.immature.
Her own mum and sister even say she is a stoppy miserable old cow lol
Her sister said to me this afternoon that she is no oil painting and is mad.
Im starting to think what the hell, i deserve better than this. Im not gonna let it get me down.
I think there are possibly a lot of issues to be resolved there...
I guess she may be quite insecure because of her past. Someone like that will often look to the other person in the realtionship to make them happy and fill an emptyness.
I know, because I have done it myself and I was also prone to mood swings, from feeling as if I was madly in love with the person to feeling nothing for her and distant wondering what was going on.
I always thought the saying "you can't truely love someone unless you love yourself" was rubbish but I realise there is truth in it. As long as you are needy of the other person then the relationship is a selfish one you are using the other person to fill your emptyness / lonelyness.
I don't know if this is the case in your situation, but it sounds like it could be. Is she exactly what you want....or were you both together to fill a need?
cleanbluesky said:
Dan is fit though
Is Nicola her? I think you should just let it go to be honest. There is nothing worse than being strung along - believe me I am fresh from that.
She does owe you an explanation though regardless of how pathetic it is.
Good luck
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Awww I'm sorry to hear that. Relationship break ups are a cruel cruel thing, I don't feel qualified to give you anymore advice as I am going through it at the moment.
Did she tell you this? Or you found out from someone else? Neither is a good thing. But the truth is that they don't care about you anymore - harsh but true.
I am annoyed with myself as I let my ex get away lightly. So I have sent him an email telling him some home truths, which won't do anything to him because he doesn't care about anyone but himself... but I had to do it for ME.
I guess we deal with things in our own way.
Take care
BB x
Did she tell you this? Or you found out from someone else? Neither is a good thing. But the truth is that they don't care about you anymore - harsh but true.
I am annoyed with myself as I let my ex get away lightly. So I have sent him an email telling him some home truths, which won't do anything to him because he doesn't care about anyone but himself... but I had to do it for ME.
I guess we deal with things in our own way.
Take care
BB x