and a bloke who'd slept with that many people wouldn't be?
a lot of posters here are saying run for the hills, I think they have a sheltered and somewhat deluded view of women. Women like sex, and have lots of it.... Shock!
Keep it as fun. She won't want anything serious whereas i think you might do.
and a bloke who'd slept with that many people wouldn't be?
Nice assumptions there.
This is what it boils down to when the shoe is on the other foot: A girl posts here and asks the glorious OcUK eggheads if she should get into a relationship with a guy which has slept with 25 girls and is only 19 too, 5 since he's been to uni. Do you honestly think, anyone, any single person here would advise that she should get with this guy and not be able to tell straight away that he was going to just use her?
You really shouldn't validate people with stupid opinions by quoting them and responding. Aedus clearly has little to no capability when it comes to comprehending relationships, just let him go his own way and hope he doesn't pass his ignorance on to the next generation.
Plain and simple: Girl is going to **** it up at uni and dump you when she finds someone better.
25 different people at 19 is a lot.
If she stopped banging you while she was seeing someone else, that's a good sign.
So how long have you known the girl in the OP?
Because what you're saying is basically 100 fact it would seem.
Also you're talking like you're the only one who has had a student life, involving girls.
I know women who "enjoyed life" and ended up with someone long term.
Long term doesnt mean forever btw. But it also doesnt mean they dumped their partner as soon as "someone better came along"
1st alarm bell. Dumped OP for someone better, until the army dude probably went off again to the army and took him back because there was nothing else. That should be reason alone to not trust her.started sleeping with this girl and ive been regularly sleeping with her apart from a 1 and a half month break where she was seeing some army lad..
2nd alarm bell. 5 Guys since she's been to uni including Army lad, and "I won't hurt you" on top? Yuh huh.basically she has slept with 5 guys since september including me and overall slept with 25 people.. shes 19.. Yea I know thats **** loads but she was saying tonight that she wants to be with me, and she wont hurt me..
3rd alarm bell. Though you can't gauge these types of "issues" she had, the fact OP brings them up must make them valid to a point where they can cause problems. They're most likely going to be silly little issues, like self confidence or being cheated on etc. Not something like someone else said "Being fiddled"Obv thats not the whole story, shes had issues.
You seem to have this view of women as though they're supposed to wear chastity belts and only unlock it for their 1 true love or something. And when single they should never remove said chastity belt.
Keep it as fun. She won't want anything serious whereas i think you might do.
Nice assumptions there.
This is what it boils down to when the shoe is on the other foot: A girl posts here and asks the glorious OcUK eggheads if she should get into a relationship with a guy which has slept with 25 girls and is only 19 too, 5 since he's been to uni. Do you honestly think, anyone, any single person here would advise that she should get with this guy and not be able to tell straight away that he was going to just use her?
"Stupid opinions", Lol sure brah.
I've been there, I can speak from experience, have you? I've also had it happen to my best mate, both ended exactly the same way. Why would I advise anyone to do the same when it's clear exactly what's going to happen?
Plain and simple: Girl is going to **** it up at uni and dump you when she finds someone better.
I've been there, I can speak from experience, have you? I've also had it happen to my best mate, both ended exactly the same way. Why would I advise anyone to do the same when it's clear exactly what's going to happen?
The army lad is more of an issue than shagging 5 guys in 7 months. The fact is OP got dropped for this guy, and when things went breasts up (For whatever reason) she came crawling back to him.
No, of course I haven't - I rarely leave the house and I'm asexual .
You can play the experience card if you like, but unless you've seen enough to know that there's no guarantee it'll go one way or the other it's just so much hot air. Sure, your enormous pool of two real-life examples (neither of which leaves you biased against the girl's part, of course) may indicate that girls who sleep with a lot of guys are just slags who can't keep their knickers on, but unless you drop your reflexive judgement and opinionated righeousness, you're unlikely to recognise when you meet a girl who happens to enjoy sex and doesn't let the ill-informed opinion of people like you influence her decisions.