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This thread is jeremy Kyle material lol
Shall I risk it with this girl?
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That, and while we're making fictitious assumptions about how OP got dumped when something better came along we could also hypothesise that the girl got committed, turned off the tap for the OP while she was in a relationship and either A) found she really missed the OP and perhaps they'd have something worth pursuing, a thought she never really considered before because of their previous involvement or B) realised that army guys are front bottoms and she could do the human race a favour by choosing to spread a better class of chromosomes in the gene pool than some meathead who's paid to hurt people because he doesn't have the capability to get any sort of civilised employment.
Y'know, while we're generalising.
Edit:
Well said(put it much better than I could have)
What are you doing out of them kitchen, knip? Go make me a sandwich
Soldato
What are you doing out of them kitchen, knip? Go make me a sandwich
I made it. I'm currently eating it.
In. Your. Face.
I made it. I'm currently eating it.
In. Your. Face.
BURN! Back to misogynist school for me
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Why not just tell her how you feel about her, it could be what she is looking for?
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Personally, if I were in that position, I would consider that you're already getting the cream, and making a conscious step towards relationship status could but strain upon your friendship that you don't want. The first thing that I would be wondering is, why now?
How many people she's slept with, is completely irrelevant, so long as she's not been stupid about it, if anything, she's just uninhibited, and there's nothing wrong with that. If it doesn't bother you, then don't worry, if she says that it is you that she wants to be with, then even better.
Just ask yourself, what do you want from her? FWB? or do you want more? Talk to her about it, and not to a bunch of geeks on a forum.
How many people she's slept with, is completely irrelevant, so long as she's not been stupid about it, if anything, she's just uninhibited, and there's nothing wrong with that. If it doesn't bother you, then don't worry, if she says that it is you that she wants to be with, then even better.
Just ask yourself, what do you want from her? FWB? or do you want more? Talk to her about it, and not to a bunch of geeks on a forum.
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Thread is useless without pics.
Soldato
Since I can't be arsed to reply to the 3 people all replying to me I can just do it in 1 post instead. Easier.
The OP has said more in terms that this girl will drop him again than she won't, that's a fact (I said dumped as a term for dropping, instead of dumping in terms of being in a relationship and breaking it off). The ONLY thing OP has said which will go for her favour is, what? "she was saying tonight that she wants to be with me, and she wont hurt me". Really? I don't think so. She did it before with him, OP is 2nd best in her eyes, why else would she go off with someone else? If she clearly cared for him so much or thought he was so great, she wouldn't have gone off with said army lad for 1.5 months, would she? The break off could be any number of things, but the fact is he was dropped for someone she thought was better. If someone dropped me for someone else, things didn't work out and she came back to me, I'd tell her to do 1, maybe it's because I have some self respect though. I'm not prepared to be with someone who thinks other people are better than me or they can do better than me so they trot off with them willy nilly. Why should anyone accept any less from a partner?
I can only judge from what OP has said, and there is nothing in favour of bothering with this girl more than anything else than a shag. If OP wants to explain more, get into more specifics than it'll be easier to gauge what course of action to take. But until he does it's obvious what the answer is.
You can bitch and moan, call me ignorant, do whatever you like. It won't change anything.
The OP has said more in terms that this girl will drop him again than she won't, that's a fact (I said dumped as a term for dropping, instead of dumping in terms of being in a relationship and breaking it off). The ONLY thing OP has said which will go for her favour is, what? "she was saying tonight that she wants to be with me, and she wont hurt me". Really? I don't think so. She did it before with him, OP is 2nd best in her eyes, why else would she go off with someone else? If she clearly cared for him so much or thought he was so great, she wouldn't have gone off with said army lad for 1.5 months, would she? The break off could be any number of things, but the fact is he was dropped for someone she thought was better. If someone dropped me for someone else, things didn't work out and she came back to me, I'd tell her to do 1, maybe it's because I have some self respect though. I'm not prepared to be with someone who thinks other people are better than me or they can do better than me so they trot off with them willy nilly. Why should anyone accept any less from a partner?
I can only judge from what OP has said, and there is nothing in favour of bothering with this girl more than anything else than a shag. If OP wants to explain more, get into more specifics than it'll be easier to gauge what course of action to take. But until he does it's obvious what the answer is.
You can bitch and moan, call me ignorant, do whatever you like. It won't change anything.
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Look this is really simple, if she bangs another guy will she tell you? If the answer is yes and that bothers you then dump her if the answer is no and it's unlikely that you will ever find out then shes a keeper as what you don't know won't hurt.
Have to disagree, I believe the number of people you sleep with does relates to the type of person that you are, be you a man or woman.
AND like they wouldn't have slept with that many if the opportunity! Chauvinistic swines
Mmm, I must have met an odd/strange crowd when I went to College and then onto Uni. I also made good friends with a bunch of guys/girls when I started working again but they were at different colleges/University's. As none of them were sleeping around with multiple partners week in and week out.
Since when did going to Uni make it ok to be a bit slaggy?
Since when did going to Uni make it ok to be a bit slaggy?
Soldato
Since the collapse of moral values in modern culture..
Nope they'd be a legend
Just do it, try and not get emotianlly attached. I mean how old are you? 19 too?
Your young, you'll get hurt and you'll get over it. If she's hot, smash it and worry about it later.