So Its happenened - wife left me.

maddad68 · 4 Feb 2006 at 09:13

Sorry to hear that your having problems , The one big thing that you must do is not let the kids become upset by it all .

Don't shout and argue in front of them ,Dont let the kids become a bone between 2 dogs both fighting over it , Make sure thay understand that it's what mom wants and not dad .

At a time like this you can tend to think that your whole world has been torn apart but my advice is to try and see it as the next faze in your life and you have a new start .

If you feel very low and have any thoghts about doing yourself or your wife harm try and get help as quick as you can .

Good luck and remember the kids are way more important than both you and you wif's feelings .

Maddad

SexyGreyFox · 4 Feb 2006 at 09:21

MeatLoaf said:
I didnt win! There was 4 professional singer in it! Certainly not fair but never mind at least i got £25

That is unfair and one of the reasons I won't enter such competitions because my 35 years of experience would show through. The other reason is that I wouldn't want to be beaten by a girl singing I Will Survive out of tune.

However, if you still think you are above average and want to work around the pubs theres a way to get you started. A mate of mine who lives in Longton does PA's from small ones to bigger ones and his rates are quite good.
Click here - www.disturbinthepeace.co.uk click on Other Bands then click on PJ's PA Hire.
I know a guy in Meir who has got every backing track you could ever want so you could still have a shot at glory without the initial expense.
My Dad could record you in his home studio (Birches Head) and make cd's for you to give out to potential pubs and this is what he did for Gordon Hendricks.

MeatLoaf · 4 Feb 2006 at 14:22

dmpoole said:
That is unfair and one of the reasons I won't enter such competitions because my 35 years of experience would show through. The other reason is that I wouldn't want to be beaten by a girl singing I Will Survive out of tune.

However, if you still think you are above average and want to work around the pubs theres a way to get you started. A mate of mine who lives in Longton does PA's from small ones to bigger ones and his rates are quite good.
Click here - www.disturbinthepeace.co.uk click on Other Bands then click on PJ's PA Hire.
I know a guy in Meir who has got every backing track you could ever want so you could still have a shot at glory without the initial expense.
My Dad could record you in his home studio (Birches Head) and make cd's for you to give out to potential pubs and this is what he did for Gordon Hendricks.

That would be great, in fact gordon is a personal mate of mine. Ive got pretty much every backing track i need. I keep trying to get Gordons manage, Dave to come and see me at the Queen Vic in Fenton.

I would love to have your dad record me in the studio, would be great. I will check that site out also. Cheers mate

Metalface Mark · 23 Mar 2006 at 20:45

I wondered how you were getting on, its been about 7 weeks since you had your trouble, how are you feeling now?

MeatLoaf · 23 Mar 2006 at 21:24

Well loads has happened actually.

Weve sorted a lot out and we are now back together. Shes 27wks pregnant now and im really ecxited about having a boy.

I won another compo a few weeks back and spent the cash on a new widescreen tv :cool:

All in all im fine. Life is good at the moment.

Nice to know people still thibk of me

Nix · 23 Mar 2006 at 21:31

MeatLoaf said:
Well loads has happened actually.

Weve sorted a lot out and we are now back together. Shes 27wks pregnant now and im really ecxited about having a boy.

I won another compo a few weeks back and spent the cash on a new widescreen tv

All in all im fine. Life is good at the moment.

Nice to know people still thibk of me

Glad to hear you're okay buddy.

Indy500 · 23 Mar 2006 at 21:34

What a turnaround, congrats dude

NeedleGunner · 23 Mar 2006 at 21:39

sr4470 said:
What a turnaround, congrats dude

Agreed, Glad things have turned around for you. Good luck in the future and with your little one

alexakasloth · 23 Mar 2006 at 21:45

Wahay great turnout

I'm really pleased for you

NiCkNaMe · 23 Mar 2006 at 22:12

dmpoole said:
That is unfair and one of the reasons I won't enter such competitions because my 35 years of experience would show through. The other reason is that I wouldn't want to be beaten by a girl singing I Will Survive out of tune.

However, if you still think you are above average and want to work around the pubs theres a way to get you started. A mate of mine who lives in Longton does PA's from small ones to bigger ones and his rates are quite good.
Click here - www.disturbinthepeace.co.uk click on Other Bands then click on PJ's PA Hire.
I know a guy in Meir who has got every backing track you could ever want so you could still have a shot at glory without the initial expense.
My Dad could record you in his home studio (Birches Head) and make cd's for you to give out to potential pubs and this is what he did for Gordon Hendricks.

OT, Dave Harding by any chance? Not a former DJ is he?

I live in Birches Head, small world

SexyGreyFox · 23 Mar 2006 at 22:23

NiCkNaMe said:
OT, Dave Harding by any chance? Not a former DJ is he?

I live in Birches Head, small world

No, he's name Phil.
My Dad is in Cromwell Street.

Ooops, nearly forgot - good luck Meatloaf, glad its turned out right.

FeFiDoh · 23 Mar 2006 at 22:35

ure back with her :eek: