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Some more relationship help...

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by M0T, 18 Feb 2006.

  1. M0T


    Joined: 23 Aug 2003

    Posts: 4,583

    Location: House

    Some of you may remember a coupleof threads I posted at the begining of the year asking for some help with the love life and now I need some more.

    Right, so I'm still after this girl (yes I know I should move on but I cant get her out of my head, I am male thus weak). A couple of weeks ago I underwent a sort of restyle and now I look completely different, and some would say more devilish :p and about this time she started showing a bit more interest in me. But at this point I was just sort of ignoring her because I was hoping she would go away.

    Anyway last thursday on the way home I am thinking that she is being a bit, well clingy is the best way to put it and I am sort of confused as to whats going on. I speak to my mate later and it turns out that he may have said something to her whilst under the influence of a lot of alcohol in the bar, which would explain the behavioural change.

    Anyway she wasn't in on monday so the next time I saw her was this thursday, where she was acting totally different, she was really eager to speak to me. She also revealed that she thought I didn't like her because I was being mean to her as apparently I tend to walk off alot when she is nearby...and calling my name.

    Anyway I apologised for this, and she said sorry for doing exactly the same to me, and after that she seemed different than usual - much more at ease, plus i got all the 'classic signs of flirting' (as my big sister calls them).

    Anyway, since I know where she works and will be there tomorrow, do you think it would be a good idea to get some kind of late valentines day/ im sorry sort of flowers sent to her, or should I wait some more and see what happens?
  2. zain


    Joined: 4 Jun 2005

    Posts: 3,773

    Flowers hahahhahahahahahahaha ok anyway, thats you saying "I want you baby", doing that right away depending on the type of girl she is could put you in for a nasty surprise. It would be nice to think of it as a nice thing but meh its women for you!

    Id just walk away as all relationships tend to end in pain :D lol ignore me, I would ask for a date or something first. Just dont get too serious yet and dont deny how you feel to yourself, just makes it worse ;)
  3. chopchop


    Joined: 14 Jun 2004

    Posts: 6,118

    hell no dont go see her and give her anything. if she wants u she needs to do something about it, not you!
  4. Morlan


    Joined: 18 Oct 2002

    Posts: 3,245

    Location: melbourne

    Don't give her flowers. Just hang out with her more and take it easy, see what happens. C'est facile.
  5. A2Z


    Joined: 9 May 2005

    Posts: 8,399

    Location: London

    no dont buy her anything, just ask her when you see her does she wana go for a drink or whateva and see how it goes
  6. Gubbins


    Joined: 2 Jan 2006

    Posts: 8

    Chill. Don't get her flowers.

    I'm a bit confused as to the 'signs of flirting' though. She either is, or she isn't.

    Be charming and flirty and see how things go.

    Ant :cool:
  7. M0T


    Joined: 23 Aug 2003

    Posts: 4,583

    Location: House

    Well I would say that she was then, but I am quite slow so it takes me a while to notice...

    I'll go with the chill approach then.

    I do wonder if the reson she was being all funny before was because she liked me, but I looked like a bit of a mess. The amount of attention I get from the ladies now is increased by 5 fold... should have sorted myself out earlier.