Rotty said:
parents do not have to put their grown up kids up for free
Each to their own way of doing things I guess, but I've been told there will always be a room for me here if I need it (I'm moving out in 8 weeks, and they're currently redecorating, but rather than convert the room to a guest room they've said I can have it done however I want).
My parents are totally against the idea of charging their offspring rent, and I agree with them, but I guess I would. Conversely, my gran also lives with us, and again doesnt get charged a penny... it works both ways, parents look after their kids, and later in life the kids look after their parents.
I don't see why money should have to enter into it, especially not in the case of the opening poster where he isn't financially independant.
If he worked full time and had a reasonable income and lived at home, then that might be another thing, but the idea of him having to take a loan and then having to pay his parents just seems wrong imho.