Man of Honour
If they can walk, they can push a lawnmower.
I started mowing and watering at an early age. Even did some pruning.
If they can walk, they can push a lawnmower.
My kids are quite young (6 & 3) but, in principle, when they're older and working (if they're still at home) my current thinking is to offer them a choice between paying 'rent' of say £200 per month, which I keep, or saving £500 per month, which they keep.
Would need to have some oversight of their finances to verify savings, but that intrusion would the price of living at home I guess.
I will be asking my Son to give me half his salary which I will then under agreement save for him ready for his future to pay off as much of his mortgage as possible. I deliver sessions saying if you save up £500 a month for 3-5years you can knock 6-8years off paying (assuming a reasonable house price).
TBF I was earning relatively silly money when I was in my early 20s and all it did was get me perpetually smashed.
Je ne regrette rien.
Just make sure you actually do save it.
My parents had a similar arrangement with me. But they spent the money, assuming that my dad would continue to earn a high wage and could just take the sum out of his current account. Then he lost his job. Fast forward to today, and the only way he can give me that money is by downsizing or taking it out of his pension, leaving me with something of a moral conundrum.
Just make sure you actually do save it.
My parents had a similar arrangement with me. But they spent the money, assuming that my dad would continue to earn a high wage and could just take the sum out of his current account. Then he lost his job. Fast forward to today, and the only way he can give me that money is by downsizing or taking it out of his pension, leaving me with something of a moral conundrum.
So peed up a wall. Same as a lot of my money between 16-17.
Get your kids earning money from you for doing "chores" from an early age. Teach them the reasons you save and the best way to investigate where to put your money - they can get the basic principles from an early age.
is no reason whatsoever to save money for your kids - it removes the responsibility from them and denies them the tools to actually manage their own affairs - that's hardly helpful imo. That's treating them like kids still - don't be shocked when they still behave like kids ...
them from say the age of seven earning money by doing various chores.
Get them to see which bank gives the best interest.
Get them to fill in the forms.
Help them read the forms and explain hard terminology.
Show them a nice house in your area - say that's what you are saving for.
Show them the local ****hole - say that's your destiny if you don't.
That way you've given them the skills and motivation!
Each to their own and I'm not one to preach, but my view is that part of good parenting includes preparing kids for the world. I made it clear that kids were expected to contribute, in non-financial ways, as soon as they were old enough, and that we were family, not their personal servants. They got chores to do, though clearly, age-relevant chores.....
I ask this because my mum (single) is still bringing up my two younger brothers (17 and 20) on her own and she works very very hard looking after them keeping the house together and my younger brother in particular does nothing to help out at all, doesn't lift a finger, they are both earning a good amount of money now but I only think it fair they chip in, am I wrong to think this?
Yeah, in a way I wish I'd had someone to make me save but given my circumstances, I was independent from a young age and ended up peeing away an awful lot of cash.
If the 0.5 of salary can be put into an account where it can't be withdrawn on a whim, that'd be great. He'll thank you in the end.
As in title, I'm just wondering under what circumstances would you require your son or daughter to start contributing to the household, do you base it on age? earnings? how many chores they do?
How much do you or would you expect?
I ask this because my mum (single) is still bringing up my two younger brothers (17 and 20) on her own and she works very very hard looking after them keeping the house together and my younger brother in particular does nothing to help out at all, doesn't lift a finger, they are both earning a good amount of money now but I only think it fair they chip in, am I wrong to think this?
My parents have never asked for money and would never take money from me if I offered.
If I have children I'd never take a penny off them for living at home, it's a home not a hotel.