Caporegime
Xordium, smart. Although how many kids?!
Not sure people are actually saying this. The point is to teach them life is not free and that you have to pay your pay way through it. People have different ways of looking at it. Either they take the money and save it for them (I think this is hardly treating them like an adult and it continuing an unhealthy pattern into adulthood) or you tell them they can stay for free but they have to save up the money themselves so they get the discipline and knowledge to do it themselves. I've got 5 kids - all of which have been treated like that latter option. Encouraged to earn money from an early age - starting off by doing small chores eg tidying up their own room through to more as they get older. All of my kids over the age of 18 have their own places - 2 with flats and 1 with a house in pretty good areas. They got that by learning the discipline from the off.
My youngest lad tidies his room up - he gets pocket money for that - when we go out he takes some (he saves over half) he then chooses what he wants to buy to remember the place rather than me treating him - that way he gets the ownership, he feels like what he has got has been earned, and already at a tender age he knows that tat falls apart and because he is paying for it with his money and making his own choices and learning not to just spend someone else's money on the superficial but to actually think is this worthwhile etc.
I am sure all the parents in here saving for their kids will give them a good deposit but like others in here have said parents can't always be trusted to keep their word. From the other side I am sure some kids will blow their savings on tat and crap. There are risks both ways but you as a parent have a job to prepare your child for the world and all it's little trick and keeping them in a comfort blanket does them no favours. They need to learn to plan for the future and also ensure they enjoy the present. That is a balancing act that is easily learned at early ages before bad habits commence.
It's not about bleeding them dry as you seem to strangely think it's about preparing them for a future when you as a parent may not be there tomorrow because of fate and then they have their whole support blanket pulled out from under them. It's down to parenting style at the end of the day. I believe a parents job is to give a child the skills and opportunities to forge their own way in the world. I know some disagree and believe that a parents job is to protect their child throughout life. I don't disagree with that just I believe what some people are suggesting in here is an extrapolation of helicopter parenting. We won't be here for ever our kids need the skills to face the world without us.
I have read the thread, we have one about once every two years and my answer is always the same.
My eldest is now putting down a rather large deposit on a new house because we didn't take her money.
My Sons first Xmas (2-3m at the time) had 3 presents. The rest we asked for money to put up..
I am sure you are doing this but one of the best things you can do for your children is start a pension for them when they are born. I've done this for all of mine and the pot they get at 18 when they have to take it over is very substantial. I've always been of the opinion if it's there they'll add to it (and they have) but if they have to start one then they are more likely to put it off to 25 then think at 30 then think 35 and then panic and have left it too late.
A pension when born? Don't they need a national insurance number for this? I've got 3 pensions and all I had to have an NI number for.
I was planning to open a pension at 16 for mine and give then a £1k start. The rest is up to them. The sad thing is that in order to get a decent pension pot these days you need £200+ in there
No, they don't you can start it from when they are born and by the time they are 16 they would already have a projected sum that would put many on this forum to shame.
You need to open it for them (obviously) and they need to be a UK resident and they get tax relief (just under 3k per year), it transfers at 18 obviously and the earliest they could possibly take it is 55.
I did not know that. I thought you originally meant a trust then transfer to Pension.
Might be worth setting a little tenner a month job then.
It is obvious. Interest rates on mortgages are Imo deeply deeply unfair.
I think it stands to reason that if you manage the quoted stuff I posted earlier the reality is that as well as saving the initial x years by extension as the LTV rate comes down then you can be in a position to overpay again thus adding more mortgages years gone
I disagree with the statemental that interest rates are unfair myself. Interest rates on mortgages are about as low as they've ever been at the moment. The banks need to make money too and the debt is a very long term one - as such what you pay needs to account for this fact as well as inflation to some degree.
I agree as before that paying more than the minimum is a good idea to reduce overall payments.
Interest rates are deliberately manipulative mind. The 1.99% is not that at all unless you pay it off in 1year. That's hat I mean.
Prime example: My old home for £80k would have needed me to pay off £234k... That doesn't seem fair to me.
How is that deliberately manipulative?
Interest rates are always expressed as APRs. Not just for mortgages but for everything. This is in part to promote fairness by making what you have to pay back easy to understand and comparisons between providers easy.