Sitting me down upon a knee patiently and explaining to me why something is wrong would have been far more effective.
Agreed , this is how I wish to bring up any kids of my own.
I'm sorry to hear about the things that happened Mr MindYerBeak Sir. I've known people who have been treated heavy handed by their parents , and they have been depressed , upset , and don't know and don't seem able to get themselves out of it. Its very upsetting to see , and theres nothing that can be said to help them , i'm sure you know well enough yourself.
a lot of parents that smack 'liberally' , not meaning to be snobby... are usually the dregs of society , the teenage mothers and the like. Its too much effort for some people to go to the effort of explaining and loving their child as a parent should , its just easier for them to give them a whack on the head or the bottom so they can go and watch their soaps or whatever in peace. People like this are not fit to bring up kids , and they shouldn't be allowed to.
Drunks and drug abusers coming home spoiling for a fight , not a lot can be done about that unless all smacking was made illegal.
There are many compelling reasons to make it illegal , but there is cuh a fine line between 'tough love' and 'child abuse' in the world I'm at a loss to a real solution. I only wish those parents who are unfit to bring up a child and to love and adore them as they should could be screened and banned from having children..