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Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by bakes0310, 1 Jun 2007.

  1. bakes0310

    Capodecina

    Joined: 22 Oct 2004

    Posts: 12,859

    cheers for the support ppl

    Im sat here trying to clear my head and i know theres nothing really wrong with it in my eyes. But its everyone else that sees it as really funny joke and i know you will all say you shouldnt give a damn of what other ppl think but i do :(
     
  2. WoZZeR

    Wise Guy

    Joined: 19 Jan 2007

    Posts: 2,002

    Location: Northampton

    It really isn't worth worrying about dude.:)

    At 21, half the folks bragging about the 'birds' they've pulled are probably lying anyway.

    It'll blow over in due course, don't let them rile you, just smile and brush it off, or try to take some positives from it, and the time will come with the right person when you can enjoy losing your virginity.

    Life is a rollercoaster ride but this is nowhere near the bottom so cheer up.:)
     
  3. Peter File

    PermaBanned

    Joined: 27 May 2007

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    Good luck coping in the army if you can't deal with this crap.
     
  4. bakes0310

    Capodecina

    Joined: 22 Oct 2004

    Posts: 12,859

    cheers :rolleyes:
     
  5. Dj_Jestar

    Caporegime

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    Location: Back in East London

    Meh.. just tell everyone that your 'friend' caught the clap.
     
  6. Ukadder

    Wise Guy

    Joined: 3 Aug 2004

    Posts: 1,752

    Location: Essex

    Nothing wrong with it at all mate, I know it sounds stupid but you'll understand that when you've lost it. My advice is don't let it get you down, sadly people will always gossip about it until something new comes along for them to talk about.

    I started seeing a girl who at 24 was still a virgin, she found it difficult to talk about and seemed embarrassed but I really didn't see it as anything more than someone not knowing how to drive.

    If it bothers you that much take a trip to Amsterdam, if you decide to "do the deed" then it's done for, on the other hand personally I wouldn't be pressured into it, a win win could be going to Amsterdam (nice city for a weekend) telling everyone you lost it and then just waiting till the right women comes along. (do tell her that it's your first time, any decent girl will understand and put in a bit of extra effort ;) )
     
  7. platypus

    Caporegime

    Joined: 25 Jul 2003

    Posts: 39,178

    Location: Rhône-Alpes+Cambridge

    Tbh Bakes, when you do lose your virginity, you'll have a cup of tea and wonder what the hell you were so worried about, it's not that special :p
     
  8. sniffy

    Sgarrista

    Joined: 12 Dec 2003

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    Location: East Sussex


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  9. Shikkaka

    Mobster

    Joined: 10 Jun 2003

    Posts: 2,779

    Location: Nottingham

    Depends on the woman your doing it with.
     
  10. platypus

    Caporegime

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    Location: Rhône-Alpes+Cambridge

    Well I would say that there is a difference between 'making love' and 'having sex'. Making love, then yeah it does. Sex? Doesn't really matter, as long as she's not a munter.
     
  11. Rich_L

    Capodecina

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    Location: Santa Barbara, Californee

    Beauty is only a light switch away! :p
     
  12. Shikkaka

    Mobster

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    Location: Nottingham

    Failing a light switch, brown paper bag.
     
  13. Shikkaka

    Mobster

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    Location: Nottingham

    I'm not refering to special as in, omfg she is the one for me. I'm talking about how ******* good she is in bed. :p

    But yea, find that special someone then sex does become special :)
     
  14. platypus

    Caporegime

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    Location: Rhône-Alpes+Cambridge

    Well ok, point taken, no matter how hot someone is, if they're crap in bed it makes the sex somewhat pointless.
     
  15. WIBSBOT

    Hitman

    Joined: 26 Sep 2003

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    Location: essex

    What's wrong with munters ? Some of the best sex you can have is with munters. That whole eager to please thing.
     
  16. Dreadi

    Soldato

    Joined: 16 Feb 2006

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    If it is that then its not really a big deal and letting them get to you will only make you feel worse.
     
  17. leaskovski

    Sgarrista

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    Result! I bet she was..... ;)
     
  18. mattbill

    Wise Guy

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    i agree lol ^^

    Seriously nothing to be worried about at all... if they want to be nob jocks n laugh at you tell them to go **** themselves :)
     
  19. ZXSpectrum

    Sgarrista

    Joined: 20 Oct 2002

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    Location: Derby

    Look dude tell the to mind thier own business... I was a fully fledgged member of the vclub until the week before i was 21. Some ppl get it from a very early age and others dont its just life. Just tell anyone that ever mentions it that you would rather make love to someone you are really in love with that to [email protected] some scutter that you meat in a nightclub and thats truly how you feel... If they dont appreciate that then they are the ones that have such a small life that they just poke fun at you. And you never know... One of the ladies in the office/company may get wind of your "Waiting for the right woman to come along attitude" and be into that commitment and away you go...

    Chill and let them say whatever and dont let it bother you... ;)
     
  20. Lew

    Wise Guy

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    I dont think you have anything to worry about dude,

    I was probably the last of my mates to do the Business but I didn't care. I did it with Someone I loved not some slapper :)

    Its all good in the Hood